Is my wife’s masturbation affecting our sex life? How I got help

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She does it in secret and never wants to make love afterward- but where does it leave me in the scheme of things? My wife loves me, and she’s had multiple orgasms when we’re together, but from time to time she likes to go solo.

I’m 40 years and she’s 32, we’ve been married for seven years now so I know how she’s like. During the day, she’ll go into the bedroom and lock the door, there’s only one reason she would do that, though I never try to get in. After she does this, later that night, she wants to be spooned but has no interest in having sex with me. It seems she’s satisfied already-so it’s goodnight for me!

She denies what’s going on and I don’t think she wants to give up sex. But would you want another meal if you’re already full? What should I do here?

I decided to go to the doctor to get some little know-how about masturbation and try to help my wife end its addictive nature. I learned that Masturbation does not usually prevent a person from wanting or enjoying sex with their partner. But for many people, it provides a qualitatively different kind of satisfaction; they are able and want to enjoy both self and other pleasuring.

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For women, many other feelings can accompany lovemaking, and sometimes it is a complex mixture, of love , pleasure, validation and perhaps even some feelings that might be considered negative such as pain, pride, neediness, anxiety, submission, anger, and frustrations that they must overcome in order to orgasm.

During sex with a partner, you have to negotiate the time and space, and set aside the day-to-day interactions with him or her. All these can interfere with the purity of sexual experience.

On the other hand, masturbation is usually devoid of feelings other than pure pleasure, and this is one reason
why it’s often continued by partners individually, even when they are tremendously satisfied by their mutual sex life. You are being very understanding to simply leave her be. Continue with this smart approach, and never take it as a sign of anything other than simple quality time to her.

For around three years my wife has been going through some kind of an addiction, which I found difficult to explain. She would hide in the bedroom or even take a lot of time in the bathroom. Whatever she was doing, I could easily tell. I would hear strange noises coming the bedroom, despite her being herself and this sometimes got me jealous with the thoughts of her cheating on me.

I was in a sexless marriage and everytime she would deny me my conjugal rights after she had masturbated.

One morning, I pretended to have overslept when she crawled out of our bed into the bathroom. This was my perfect time to catch her in the act. After about twenty minutes, I crept slowly from the bed and stormed into the bathroom only to catch her masturbating.

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She was in shock, and ashamed. But I told her it was okay. She confessed she was addicted and had tried to stop severally with fail. She had even secretly visited various hospitals to meet counselors for help but still it dint work.

When I heard of Kiwanga doctors from a friend, I knew found a solution. Without hesitation, I contacted Doctor Kiwanga and booked an appointment. The following day my wife and I met him and she was prescribed some herbal medicine.

Slightly a few days after the visit, her urge for sex with me was back and she forgot of her addictive behavior of masturbation. Credits to Kiwanga Doctors. I now get my conjugal rights fully. I advise anyone with such related issues to visit Kiwanga Doctors because they have a solution. They also deal with healing and treating of various diseases including Epilepsy, Pneumonia among other diseases. They are also talented in casting real and genuine spells in
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